Wat defines you?

hmmm this qn jus popped into my mind.... so wat do you tink??

well the meaning of definition of one means wat dictates your behaviour in the society, how you treat ppl around you... practically its jus YOU..

Well to me, after sum brief pondering, i think its the evirnoment, the society itself dun u tink? Well of course, the way u r brought up is also important, thus making the role of parents paramount... But besides the role of parents... wat abt other aspects??

As I simulated the formulation of behaviour of one in my brain... friends, your nature of work can be the factors too... lets start with frens, well parents always tell u to mix with the correct group of frens... how true... i've come to realise tt too... thanks dad and mom!! well for example, if ur grp is a very outgoing, naturally unknowingly, u'll become more outgoing... if ur grp is beng-ish, haha well u noe wat i'm trying to say la... lolx... so ya, make the right choice =)

Next, your work... well there no need to elaborate more on this.. cos its more or less the same as the frens u mix with.... If the office politics in ur workplace is intensive, well u can expect a very much defensive profile.. thus accumulating much mistrust in dealing with ppl... not good not good...if ur colleagues are peace loving... haha yea... tink u noe the answer...

All these being said, wat really defines us is how we integrate the 3 factors - upbringing values, frens, work relations... and i almost forgot, the 3 factors are jus like 3 compunds... they need a catalyst to react.... yes the catalyst is none other than the society flow... its hard for me to explain.. but i can say its the so called 'big picture' =) well the 3 factors will eventually integrate and the result is YOU... =)

so yea... well we all haf different scenarios in our lives, no doubt there will be clashes... but if we all compromise and give in, the world will be a better place.... BUT be confident and firm, dun let ur behaviour sway to and fro...tt'll make ppl tink u r fake haha!!

ok... am done =) pai say la.. random thots la... hehe